Monday, August 16, 2010

Soulmate vs lifemate

The popular notion regarding the search for one's Soulmate, the one perfect person out there for us, the one who will be the best match, is misguided. Someone can show up for us astrologically as a soulmate, and we can feel as though that person is already known to us, as if we'd met them before. They can feel familiar to us, easy, a known entity, an unbreakable bond.
But let's not confuse that with a partner who has the same life goals, who wants to create the same things we do, and who has the skills to do so.
If your soulmate doesn't want kids and you do...they're just not a viable life mate for you.