Don't do it in the dark! You know what I'm talking about.
Don't deprive yourself, or your partner, of part of the experience. :)
Don't hide your body, ladies. Part of Erotic Integrity is owning your body.
And look at each other. If it's dark, you can't see each other. That's fun once in a while for fantasy play. But it's not conducive to intimacy ('into me you see').
I'm not talking bright lights here, unless it's daylight (warm days, lovemaking in the secluded sunshine). A candle is sufficient for you to see each other.
