A note on that, since I hear that complaint often: ladies, men want to please you. You have to set him up to win. You have to let him know how to seduce you. Invite him – don’t demand in frustration and make him wrong. Invite him to do things that you would consider romantic. Spell it out clearly: “I’d love it if
you brought me flowers, lit some candles, turned the heat up (literally – if it’s winter, come on, who wants to get naked when it’s cold?), lit the fire and spread out a blanket, took me dancing, rubbed my feet, fed me grapes, put the kids to bed”… You get the idea.
